Saturday, July 10, 2010

Neutral Relationships




One of the rules to loving yourself is not getting into unhealthy relationships.
I personally feel that neutral relationships are the healthiest!

If you can say hello, you must be able to say goodbye.
If not, this relationship is not neutral.

Goodbyes are difficult and they hurt the most! But if you are able to say goodbye to someone and hello again later on, goodbye doesn't really affect you. And thats the thing about neutral relationships - Goodbye doesn't hurt you!

Promising yourself a relationship that will be the same forever is like tying a time-bomb at your waist. Nothing is the same forever and expecting that kinda relationship is guarantee-ing yourself nothing but disappointment.

Neutrality is what brings peace and balance, keeps away jealousy, brings in flexibility AND helps you love others better.

Do not chain yourself or anyone else up.

Forgive.

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