You know what I mean. That feeling when say you've lost the love for someone? It's not love, it's just the feeling of 'the chase' and the excitement of it all. You lost the feeling of excitement and now you are totally comfortable with your partner. When you see them, your heart doesn't pump fast anymore. When you go on dates with them you can meet them in your pajamas without being afraid of judgement. And when you reach that level of intimacy, you need not do much to please them anymore because the chase is over and their 'yours' now.
And at this point, you feel like breaking up because you have suddenly realized that you don't feel as much love for that person anymore. But in actual fact, there's little love to speak of in the first place! You are breaking up because there is nothing left to do anymore, no more excitement, no more chase... To simply put it, you are BORED.
What is love to you? A lustful adrenalin rush?
To love is to commit.
At least that's my definition.
So if you are breaking up with someone for the same reason, you might want to think again. Why are you falling in love in the first place?
Now I finally understand why lovers can never love you more than your parents do (well at least for most people).
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